Just hearing the word friend zone probably makes a man cringe. He doesnt want to hear a girl problems with her man, men, or potential bae. Is the friendzone really that bad fellas? Like really its pros and cons to this. Just think about it while she telling ALL her business, you actually learning things about her she probably wouldnt even tell you if you guys actually did talk on another level. I understand you may just want to jump head first into being her "him." In reality, some of you guys are as bad as the guys we tell you about. Being in the friendzone you know you lie to her to make her think you're "Mr.Perfect" in case she ever look at you "that way." Patience just might be the key to getting out the friendzone. One day she might be over all the other men and realize you been there the whole time. Corny right? I know dudes probably like this is a waste of time but to be honest if you know you mean no good just chill. Some women know you want them but you get friendzone maybe because we're feeling you too but know you will mess it up if you get the chance. Friendzone for a woman isnt trying to use you as our own personal journal. Most men use the whole facade that men just want to be the side man, or sex is the only thing you want. Do you really think women want to be used in that kinda way especially if we're looking for something real? Believe me when I say a woman is not gone make you her "friend" if she doesnt find you attractive in any kinda way. From our point of view we're either saving you or ourselves in most cases. On the other hand you just be that "nice" friend." Sometimes women feel they might be too much for you. One thing about being the nice guy you're very modest. Don't be afraid to speak openly to her. The answer is either yes or no. Ask yourself would you rather waste your time ?
"He's not the guy for you" My guy friend said.
"He has a girlfriend" My guy friend told me.
"Let him take you out on a date" My guy friend suggested.
My guy friend so kind and he's a great listener
"Ya'll should be together" My homegirl told me.
My guy friend is a dog. I notice how he does other girls.
"We're better off as friends"
Maybe I've entertained the thought of us.
But i know... like you know you mean me no good.
I rather look at you as my perfect friend that would never do me wrong.
Me ! The girl who pours her heart out to you.
The girl you think play games because I change clothes in front of you and tell you "Better not look"
Man please I know what Im doing. If i gave you a "yes" you would of been robbed my cookie jar like a crook in the night.
And did me the same way that these guys do me.
"He's not the guy for you" My guy friend said.
"He has a girlfriend" My guy friend told me.
"Let him take you out on a date" My guy friend suggested.
My guy friend so kind and he's a great listener
"Ya'll should be together" My homegirl told me.
My guy friend is a dog. I notice how he does other girls.
"We're better off as friends"
Maybe I've entertained the thought of us.
But i know... like you know you mean me no good.
I rather look at you as my perfect friend that would never do me wrong.
Me ! The girl who pours her heart out to you.
The girl you think play games because I change clothes in front of you and tell you "Better not look"
Man please I know what Im doing. If i gave you a "yes" you would of been robbed my cookie jar like a crook in the night.
And did me the same way that these guys do me.