I was reading an article yesterday about why a man should marry a Caucasian woman instead of a woman of another race. Basically the article said white woman knows how to be submissive and let a man be a man.
I disagree as a black woman. African American women are stereotyped in such a harsh way. When talking about dating a black women we always hear about the weaves, the kids, the attitude but theres more to us. As an African American woman I can honestly say submissive and weak are two different things. If you are looking for weak do not approach the black woman.
Now im not speaking for every black woman. Every woman is not the same in any ethnicity but Im referring to the strong black woman that is considered crazy, bipolar, or always talking back. A strong woman is considered crazy because she's passionate.
Considered bipolar because she treats people based on how they treat her.
We dont talk back we just speak our mind.
A strong minded woman will never be submissive to a weak man. Loving a strong black woman is like iron sharpening iron. She knows she can play a man Alpha role better than him with her intelligence so why would she settle. A woman submits to a strong man who earns her respect with his mentality. A woman is not a bitch because she knows what she wants. She just won't settle for less than she deserves.
A Black Woman can be submissive. Check history WE have been our men backbone since the beginning of time. The fact that women won't lay down and let a man walk over them doesn't make her a terrible person to date. Only weak men want women who doesn't speak her mind and let him walk over her. Being submissive is the easy part if she can trust you. A woman with a good head on her shoulder will not let a man lead her if he is blind. She can be submissive she's just waiting for a man that is worthy.
The black man has talked down on his black women more than any race. It started with the whole light skin versus dark skin. In other people eyes we are still BLACK. A heart doesn't love more or less based on the color of the person the heart resides in.
Light skin doesn't make you pretty.
Dark skin doesn't mean you're ugly.
Light skin doesn't mean she's stuck up.
Dark skin doesn't means she's humble.
Truth of the matter black women LOVES black men but where are the real men ? We don't want real niggas ? A boy saying "I f*ck with you" is not the same as a man saying "I love you". Don't let your pride tear down what can be your number one cheerleader that understands you the best.
The LOVE of a black woman is not something that every man can handle. It's a strong love, something that will hold you down no matter what but it's up to that man to make her feel secure and loved. It's not for the faint hearted. Only the strong will survive.
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