Have you met your forever person ? Like that person that just won't go away? Or are you being blind to the person that's right in front of your face?
I guess you call them brother, homeboy/homegirl, your boo. That person that you've been through so much with. You may have thought of being with them. Maybe not. Someone who might be forbidden fruit.
In your mind, you may wonder why are they still my friend. Wondering how they know so much about you or deal with you and stay. Or maybe its the other way around.
If you two ever make it official, history says that you two will last. The present question is how do we get to that point. Are we just going through the motions ? You may have never admitted that you like them or love them. Probably never thought about it
Does it make this person your crutch or genuinely someone that'll always be around. COULD THIS BE WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR? Am I looking for something too perfect? He/she isn't perfect but they're perfect for me.
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Katt Tarrance
2/18/2014 06:46:28 am
I can relate to this in certain aspects, my ex, of 7 years, and I always trend to remain in contact. For the longest I thought it was a sign that we belonged together. After trying to get back tougher countless times I realized that maybe the position I was trying to give want what God assigned fir him in my life...
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Hey! Great post that I think most everyone can relate to. I think that most people don't always know what they truly want out of relationship until they reach a certain age or have gone through a different amount of experiences. Speaking from personal experience I've been several bad relationships and none of them worked simply b/c the person I dated didn't have the qualities I needed but rather they had qualities I thought I wanted in my partner. All in all, I think people can benefit from being a bit more open minded and taking their time when building relationships.
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